(no subject)

[nfotxn]

Have you ever got the feeling that you'd like some romance just because it's something to do, something that'd make you happy not unlike a few drinks or a game of pool?

Is that wrong?

Comments

[jenneferre.livejournal.com]

No. it's not wrong to want. The problem is that those feelings tend to incite action, generally with a poor choice of partner. Trust me.

[notofthisworld.livejournal.com]

I believe that's what's called a 'fling'.

[bremo.livejournal.com]

Long as you don't hurt anyone in the process, t'is fine.

[nfotxn.livejournal.com]

And that's exactly it, I think that's pretty much impossible.

[txmystreaux.livejournal.com]

Hey, its a good thing to be thinking this stuff out though. Heck, most guys just do it and never worry about how anyone else feels. I know its tough, but you get cool points from me.

[nfotxn.livejournal.com]

Woo! I'll all about getting cool points from sexy guys.

Re:

[txmystreaux.livejournal.com]

LOL, moi?

[notofthisworld.livejournal.com]

You say "I'm not looking for a relationship; just a romantic fling." You say this when you meet the person (or in your ad, or whatever). You break it off before things get too serious.

I think there's a convention which says a fling lasts no longer than one season.

[nfotxn.livejournal.com]

Yeah, that's true, I could do that. Problem being is that I can't really get laid regularly let alone get a serious date.

Wishful thinking on my behalf really.

move to a bigger city...

[stingray1975.livejournal.com]

... like Toronto & such worries will be somewhat resolved. at least the 'romantic fling' thing. :)

Re: move to a bigger city...

[nfotxn.livejournal.com]

Yeah, that'd be nice. I'll be moving once I'm done here, that's for sure.

And I really only say fling because as soon as anything is deemed at all "serious" it blows up in my face like a big fat cock on the verge of orgasm.

mmmm...

[stingray1975.livejournal.com]

cocks blowing up on the verge of orgasm. is that so bad? hehehe seriously, i hear ya. surely, there must be a middle ground between one-night stands & "marriage". i guess it's a matter of finding mature people with whom you can negotiate that happy medium, and most importantly, truly know what you want yourself. then, mutual expectations can be hammered out such that no one gets disappointed. that's how i generally work, but then again, that's just me.

[notofthisworld.livejournal.com]

Hmmm. Maybe you should hang around some less-superficial people who appreciate your many attractive qualities.