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1. What is your bearcode?

   Like hell if I know, I used to always use that script that generates them for you on RfB

2. Would you consider yourself more of a bear or a cub? Why?

   Ya know, I've got lots of labels in my life. Most of them I don't get to choose. I guess cub because of my age, and that's what people generally call me. But I can very much see myself developing into a "bear" as I get older. there's that whole "state of mind" thing to it.

3. Where is the most recent unusual place you've had sex?

   A snow bank near the air port. We were hot and horny enough for eachother to ignore the snow.

4. How big a part does a "fur fetish" play in your sexual habits?

   I think of it the same way I think of straight guys who get hung up on blondes or asian women. It can be a very erotic thing and it definitely turns me on, but am I going to be so tunnel visioned as to ignore other people? Fuck no, because then I'd have no right to complain about never getting laid. Which really hasn't been a problem lately *buffs nails

5. How "bear exclusive" are you - would you play with a non-bear?

   Very inclusive. I honestly consider a broad range of people as my types and my criteria is NOT just physical. Although admittedly big, hairy and husky guys really turn me on. Also I can be a daddy chaser sometimes too. When it comes down to it other than cheap one-night-stands the people I tend to try and spend time with cover a broad spectrum of body types. Someone who's comfortable, funny and intelligent turns me on a lot more than some vacuuous muscle queen or self-absorbed sash waver.

6. How important is it to you to be "bear" identified?/How does being a "bear" or "cub" fit into the part of your life that is not sex-related?

   I will no lie, first and foremost it gets me tail from guys I think are hot. But really to the rest of my life is rather inconsequential. Fact is that it's not a self-inflicted label, it's what other people call me. Even some straight people. That sort of intuitivity lends a certain validity to my own "self identification" with the sub-culture. But other than a social and sexual group it doesn't effect too much of my life. Just like Feria™ Hair Colour I'm multi-faucetted.. maybe not shimmering though. I identify as a back-packer hip-hopper, post-rave kid, IDM bedroom glitch technician, classical musician, punk/rocker, design dork, art fag, culture and media pundit, pseudo-intellectual, latte sipper with strong rural and celtic heritage.
   
   It's part of a larger picture with is me.

   How do you feel about people in the gay community who are not positive about bears?

   I'll be perfectly honest and say that I'm yet to really meet too many gay men who aren't "bear positive". I meet a lot more bears who are "twink negative" and even outwardly offensive. Oh how the tables turn boys.

   Have you ever taken a break from being identified as a bear or cub?

   I really haven't felt the need to yet. But I've never really been to a big bear run or had my pictures taken for a magazine. I'd much rather be highly involved in other aspects of culture that I'm interested in, namely music and art. That doesn't rule out the possibility, but it's by no means an itching aspiration.

   How do you feel about the many sub-identifications, like polar bear, grizzly, wolf, otter, etc?

   A label is a label is a label. I have no problem with people using labels as long as they understand that people always carry more than one! Infact labels make it easy for us to identify people who we might want to know. I don't buy that "don't label me" bullshit because they're a very useful organization tool. It's just a matter of how you utilize them.

   How often does your shower drain get clogged from body hair?

   Occasionally, I have one of those filters on my shower that catch it. It can be pretty gross by the end of the week.

   Are you a Top, Bottom, or Versatile, and why?

   Warning: TMI Zone
   
   I tend to be an exclusive top although there are times when I really want to bottom. It's got something to do with migrational patterns of sparrows or something. Also I'm not too clear on this whole douching thing which kinda kills my assuredness about bottoming. Now rim jobs.. Mmmm Mmmm good. Ok, gotta think about Phillis Diller in red pleather now.