iCruising

There's nothing sexier than a guy describing how his now ex-boyfriend recently committed suicide due to an untreated bi-polar disorder and then asking you to come have sex with him. There's a few reasons this sets off the Freak Radar:

1. It might not be true. Compassion is honourable but naïvety is just risky.
2. Who the hell strikes up conversation talking about DEAD BOYFRIENDS?! Talk about MORBID.
3. How do sustain an intimate relationship with somebody and not figure out they might be a little down, let alone bi-polar?

My guess is that this dude is actually projecting and the boyfriend is just an effigy. Colour me a skeptic, but hey that's how you learn to get along in this world. Now conversely I met an intelligent man who's into comics can keep up witty dialog even on that shitty gay.com client and likes geeky guys! Doesn't hurt that he's dashingly handsome. It becomes more apparent to me as time goes on that I'm probably only going to sustain any sort of LTR with a geeky or nerdy type.

So it all works out in the end.